1st. off I'm not really what would be called an audiophile. My listening will probably be 75/25 TV&movies/music.
I really liked the B&W 685 for the fronts, 686 for the rears and the HTM 62 for the center. The whole thing comes to about $1400 without tax.
To your first point above, I would suggest that if you manage to choose a very good set of main speakers, the ratio of movies/music may change from 75/25 to 25/75. It doesn't take an audiophile to simply enjoy listening to music and a really good pair of speakers may lead you to reacquire the pleasure of music for its own sake. Like yourself, I was a 75/25 guy until I got my first set of good speakers. Now I'm a 25/75 guy and I'm no audiophile.
There's nothing wrong with the B&W's you listed. But this price range is an extremely crowded market with a ton of options to choose from, like those listed above or Monitor Audio, Era, Epos, Focal.JMLabs, Energy, PSB, Mirage or even the upcoming Emotiva speakers, which I think are fantastic at their price point (I have heard the Emotiva and I was quite impressed). There are so very many choices at this price point, it really requires that you do some proactive auditioning to find the speakers that best suit your tastes and expectations.
The auditioning process is quite possibly the most exciting part of the hobby, trying to find the speaker that's exactly right for you. Nobody else can tell you what you like or dislike so get out and listen to speakers, as many as humanly possible. Relax and enjoy the search.