If you don't have any experience soldering, I suggest you get some that don't require soldering. There's a bunch of good ones out there.
As for soldering, it may sound simple to those that never tried it, but it's a learned art that takes skill and practice. After all, doing a root canal is only drilling and filling, right? How difficult can that be?
Solder is not used to make a connection, only coat a pre-existing solid physical connection to provide an air-tight bond between the component parts. You must first make a good, solid physical connection between the two items being soldered. Then, you heat the connection (not the solder) until the connection itself is hot enough to melt the solder. The solder should melt and freely flow in and around the join. If you simply melt the solder and drop/glob it over the connection, particularly a physically questionable one, you're asking for trouble.