Hi wjm1960,
I don't really understand your statement: "I dont think I can put anything on the output of the preamp without overloading the active crossovers."
If your mixing board has two outputs, you can use the output with active crossover for the amp going to the Bose, and use the unfiltered output for the amp going to the subs, right?
If that's the case, then you can use either a passive filter for the subs, or a passive inline filter at the input to the sub amp.
Input impedances to K2 amplifiers are 10Kohms unbalanced and 20Kohms balanced. It's highly unlikely that you'll overload the pre-amp output stage or active filter on such a high impedance.
Sounds like a cakewalk to me, but maybe I'm missing something? Let us know.