MaestroHC said:
..."at least 100 w.p.c. in order to do the jazz and classical music justice". He told me that the cymbal crashes,strings, piano, and voices would not be "as detailed" with the 65 watts.
Crap, crap, and crap. Those mid to high frequency sounds aren't what require a lot of power. It's the loud bass that needs the wattage. What
will affect the high frequencies is if the amp is driven to clipping by loud bass. That's
IF. What you will hear then is a quite audible harshness, not a lack of "detail". Bear in mind that the tweeters used even in very expensive speakers have power handling cababilities of around 25 watts RMS.
Mark W is right. For that matter, so is everyone else in this thread, so a lot of what I have to say is merely to reinforce or expand on the above. Even doubling the power to 130 WPC only gets you a 3dB increase in sound which is audible, but only just. Moral: if your amp is breathing hard you probably need to quadruple (or more!) the power. And I don't know of too many people who REALLY need 260 wpc!
Unless you have a quite large room, very inefficient speakers, or habitually listen at earbleed levels (because your hearing is already shot!) don't sweat it. I recall hearing about a "rule of thumb" to tell if your amps are adequate: if you have to routinely turn the volume control knob much above the halfway mark in normal listening you're cutting it close. Can't vouch for the truth of it but it seems to make sense. Unless, of course, you have one of those Spinal Tap amps that goes up to 11.
Anecdotally, I have also heard that often one does not feel the need to turn the volume up as much for multichannel listening as for 2 channel stereo because the surround seems to add so much more "you are there" presence that many folks are satisfied at lower actual SPLs. YMMV, of course.
I should also point out that I happily owned and listened to a 60 wpc amp (stereo) for many years in a variety of dwellings and rooms with pretty inefficient speakers.
My bottom line: stick with your Onkyo. If you find you are lacking power, drive the front L and R speakers with an outboard power amp via the preouts (if it has them - not an Onkyo expert here!). If budget is a concern, nice power amps with gobs of power can be found used. And these days it's a buyer's market, according to a friend who is having trouble selling a high-end Plinius integrated!