I'll agree with much of what you stated, but, for the record, I never asserted that good, or even great results cannot be obtained in less than optimal conditions. Most of us do not have anechoic rooms, so my reference to professional soundrooms was for illustration purposes...what is ideal, and what we should first consider (room treatment) if we expect remotely good sound...period. We all like talking about great receivers, connections and speakers, but that all goes out the window if you don't have a good starting point (a good acoustical room).
In my terminology, one should not use terms such as listening room and theater (let alone dedicated theater) if he does not start with good, if not near optimal, acoustics.
These days, I guess, one can go to BB, lay out $500.00 for a htib, stick it in a tiled bathroom, their garage, or a "room" with just two walls, yet still call it a listening room or theater. Perhaps it's just semantics. I think of it as sound 101. Cheers.