I know it's tough to spend $100 - $150 or more on a good universal remote but, once you do you'll wonder why you didn't years ago.  They are pretty easy to program and really simplify things.  I never had very good luck with the so called universal/programmable remotes that came with satellite receivers, tv's or ht receivers.  None of them would control everything I had, but all of them would control some.  I picked up a Harmony remote a few years ago and it has meet all my needs.