Does perhaps either the player have a gross subwoofer output adjustment or boost, or the receiver have an external input subwoofer level adjustment?
For example, the player may have a +10dB subwoofer out boost adjustment. Or the receiver may have an external input subwoofer adjustment in 5 or 10dB increments.
If not, you're left with only the player's individual speaker level trims and the receiver's individual external input level trims to make the adjustments.
Also, to what size are your speakers set in the player?