The very first thing I would do is plot the frequency response at exactly where you sit, since you have no options left. Check each sub by itself, write it down, then both together and see what you have.
http://snapbug.tripod.com/
This has instructions how to and a link to a Word document, free, to plot it. You can use the second chart where it has corrected response for the second sub so you can see. The third chart would be both subs running. It also accounts for the Radio Shack FR inaccuracies.
You need a CD with low frequency sine waves to excite the room modes, from 10 Hz to at least the crossover frequency, hopefully in 1 cycle increments. Need an RS Spl meter, and a stand such as a camera stand to hold the meter.
This will tell you where and how bad the fr stands. Right now, you only know it is bad; that is telling nothing.
I would also recommend that Behringer DSP 1124; in is $100 in th eUS, not sure what it would be there. Maybe that poster from Canada, can ship one as it only costs $100CND
It has 12 frequencies you can adjust in each channel.
I doubt room treatment will fix a 20+ dB spl variation and you will be lucky if that is all you have.