Dude. You are shooting in the dark, like most people that do this. Without understanding some basic principles of Acoustics and taking measurements, shooting in the dark is ALL you will be doing.
Worrying about cable lengths? You need miles of cable to make an audible difference. Worrying about the diffraction caused by a piece of furniture? This is only really useful in the most academic of considerations.
Forgive that I am coming across as harsh: it is not intended as such.
If you want to get a remedial grip on this:
Get a Umik 1 and learn how to use REW. This will cost you ~$100 and some time.
Read a book like:
Master Handbook of Acoustics, Sixth Edition [Everest, F. Alton] on Amazon.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. Master Handbook of Acoustics, Sixth Edition
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In the mean time, post some photos of your room so we can see what you are dealing with. Proper setup is key, and there are usually a lot of FREE things you can do that will greatly improve your situation.
Also, what are your speakers? Wide dispersion Speakers will require different considerations than controlled directivity Speakers. For example, I know with the latter you can do time-intensity trading as you described in your very first paragraph. Wide dispersion, not so much.
Lastly, for now, I have seen so many stories of people that went crazy treating their rooms to the nines only to throw a bunch of that cr@p away once they learned more, and actually improved the sound.