Well well well, what a difference a few months make....
Just to update, I did end up taking the Sony htib back to Costco. I hate doing that, but I never opened the thing and it just sat there for a month. I decided that if I was going to jump into the home theater thing, then I was going to go all the way.
I am just about ready to purchase the following:
Panasonic AE100
Polk RTI8 x 2 for the front
Polk CSI3 x 1 for the center channel
Polk FXI3 x 2 for the rear-surround
My problem lies in the receiver and also the two fxi3 rear surround speakers.
The people at Frye's recommend that I get the Onkyo TX-SR674S 7.1 the only reason they recommend that one is because it has hdmi switching. You see everything I have is going to go through one hdmi connector to my panasonic projector.
The problem with the fxi3 rear surround speakers is their size. I can't believe how great they sound, but really, they're huge! (12" H x 11" W x 7-3/8" D) I have a smallish room I am making into a theater that is 13 by 17 and they still seem big. When I talked to the salesman at Frye's they said that it's what I wanted....ok....so how about some smaller polk rti4's for the surround? He said that they didn't have the dipole. Considering the size of my room, I don't know how well they would work anyway.
So.
My needs for a receiver are pretty simple, awesome spatial sound, something worthy of a audiophile, lots of power, everything converted into a hdmi out, easy intuitive menu and programming, in the $500-$650 range. Braggin rights would be nice too.
thoughts anyone?