So I have it working not as I envisioned it at first, but nonetheless, I have it working it the right capacity & functionality...such a simple fix that I was missing until MDS metioned the simultaneously feature.
I left the main set up as is with Optical/HDMI. I then connected an Aud/Vid cable from Rec to Cable box, then a Vid cable to TV to a seperate Video Source select. The downside is no Hi Def picture, but I can now listen to Music Channels again. I was able to manage the Inputs thru my Harmony remote and Shazam!! I was in business. I then did the same thing for my Ipod on seperate source and now I am ready for summer drinks inside and out again!