I would call Denon to see how much the replacement mic is. The mic for my Onkyo was only $18 shipped, but it seems Marantz charges a lot more. See what Denon charges.
It's well worth it to have. Anytime you move your couch, speaker positions, change anything, add treatments, you'll want to rerun MultEQ.
the mics are calibrated for each receiver model. Therefore, you need the stock mic.
people easily spend this much on an SPL meter, or more. In this case, IMO, it's very well worth it to get the mic. In fact, my belief is that it is mandatory.