Curtains will not have so much effect on the acustics, even if they are very very heavy fabric, but they will have som slight effect..... but not in midrange and bass at all.....
It's important not to overdamp the room, if the curtains are there for visual purposes then fine...
You could buy some rockwool acoustic boards, they come in varying sizes and the thicker ones may have the effect you're after, and they're cheap and it doesn't matter if they're ugly because the curtains cover them.
You may cut some in sth like 20" width and put them 45 degrees to the corner, they will somehow likely perform as bass traps, not to the same level as the best commercial designs, but this may be something to try and it's not expensive. The thicker the board the better, and if you can leave space between corners and bass traps, effect will increase.
I'm going to do the same at my home....
Just try and test, to see what works for you and what doesn't
There's also the illbruck acoustic products, they provide all kinds of different types of acoustic boards, diffusors and absorbers wedges and much more, much cheaper to buy these compared to completed commercial products, and they serve the same purpose.
http://www.illbruck-sonex.com/products.php
Good luck
I have also made a calculator in excel that, if you enter all the room dimensions, you get the frequency of all standing waves in the room (only works for square rooms), I will see if I can locate this and provide this......
PS, only works with metric dimensions, not feet....
This could be a help to sort out what are trouble frequencies in a room
Pls remind me if I foorget about this excel spreadsheet
-Harald