OK, regardless of the resolution or which is "better", I still prefer progressive to interlaced, I'm really sensitive to screen flicker. So that still brings up my original question, which is:
CRTs that don't convert progressive images to interlaced.
Personally, I don't care if 1080i content remains 1080i, because there isn't much of it out there that I'm going to be watching. This TV is going to be full-time DVD and Xbox, so 480p is the most important, and the option to maintain 720p signals as progressive would be a perk, if anything. I just don't want regular TV and 480p to be scaled to interlaced, that's my barebones requirement.