The xover frequency that you list is the frequency at which the speaker itself hands off the signal from one driver to the other - it is not the frequency to be concerned with when determining your receiver xover setting.
The frequency you want to look at is the -3 dB (F3) point of the speaker and then set your receiver xover at roughly 1/2 to 1 octave above that point (and listen and experiment to see which you prefer). Given that the specs you list give the point at which the speaker is -6 dB, the F3 point is slightly higher. 120 Hz is probably a reasonable starting point, although 100 Hz may be better.
In general, you want all speakers Small, Sub=yes, and a suitable xover setting that is based on the capabilities of the speakers. If any of the speakers are truly full-range or at least close (20-30 Hz - 20 kHz), and very few are, you want to avoid the Large setting. Let the sub do what it is designed to do - reproduce all the low frequencies.