A couple of things.
1. You shouldn't be using both xovers. Turn the xover on your sub as high as it will go or defeat it and let the xover in the receiver do it's job.
2. When you run the mains as large in the receiver, you're going to get some overlap in the sub and mains which can cause cancellation issues. Even with larger speakers capable of lower frequencies, you'll have an easier job balancing things out if you set the mains to small. That way, you can place them for best imaging and the sub for smoothest response in the room. Trying to do bass with both can make it very difficult to get things balanced and not run into a lot of phase and cancellation issues.
Once you get this straightened out, then absolutely, some bass absorbers will help to smooth things out and control the bottom end decay.
Bryan