I have the Bose Quiet Comfort 2s and the Sony WH-1000XM4. I too use the Bose for flying (the original driver to purchase) but also in the house when puttering about rockin' away, typically on Spotify. The Sony WH-1000XM4 were a Christmas Gift as I was looking for them so I could use them outside when the weather is warm, and I'm cutting the lawn again. I like them both but sticking buds in your ears does take some getting used to, but over the ear (like the Bose) can get uncomfortable in warm weather. (Sweaty!)
The Bass from the Sony WH-1000XM4 is impressive but the Bose wins there. The N/C is good for both. I use them primarily with my iPhone for portability, although I have pair them with our new TV and Laptop; just to try them out. Of all the Audio products out there, I think headphones is one of the most personal, and hard for others to direct someone to purchase. You really need to try them out with the source material you'll use most.