I had a similar situation recently, with the wife/closet, bought a real nice Pioneer 919, excellent Ipod integration without a extra dock, plenty of power, microphone calibration, HDMI, USB inputs, doesn't produce a lot of heat. Check it out, it might be a little more than you want to go, but really a bargain for what you get.
Used Cd player, I love the Denon 2900, I have the Denon 3800 DVD, which has excellent sound. I would also add that I have a Onkyo Cd changer, and it produces similar results.
Just an extra thought here, I purchased Polk Audio Rti A1 bookshelf speakers, which are incredible for what they are.