Several things: -
From what you say, I would definitely recap those crossovers, especially those in the high pass filter.
The DC resistance below spec. indicates over heating of the VCs due to too much power. The insulation burns and the coils start shorting and then you get burn out and open circuit.
Be very careful testing speakers with HF test tones. In music there is little power in the HF band. It is easy with a test tone to put a lot of power to a tweeter, damage it and burn it out. I'm inclined to think that your test procedures are the cause of your trouble, and not the crossover, but I can not be certain. To test caps, you need a capacitance bridge, or a device that contains one. It will be simpler for you, and less expensive, to just recap.
When using high frequency test tones, you need to keep the power very low indeed, or you will buy a lot of tweeters.