For the most part I've got to agree, and I suppose one could say I'm a super-serious bi-amp'er.
Frankly, for most simple two or three driver speakers I've never heard a difference from bi-amping, regardless of whether the speakers were expensive or cheap, or the amps expensive or cheap. I bet I've helped over a dozen people set up their systems over the past few years, and every one that has bi-wire capable speakers and an extra amp lying around or some extra channels wants to try bi-amping. Since the voltage applied to both sets of terminals will likely be identical the mostly likely outcome is just a waste of electrical power.
Nonetheless, over the years I have found two cases in which bi-amps does seem (note the use of the word "seem") to produce audible differences. Well, in the first case I'm going to discuss I suppose seem is the wrong word, it does. This is the case of using amps for the woofer sections of the speakers that have level controls. Obviously, AV receivers aren't going to allow this, but many separate power amps do. In this scenario you can use the level controls on the power amp to adjust the relative loudness of the bass frequencies, and because you're using the passive crossover this can result in some very pleasing effects - moreso than I've ever heard with any equalization, short of a old Cello Audio Pallet. In some rooms just a smidgen of bass boost or back-off is just what the ear orders. (This effect can also be noticed by using amps with difference input sensitivities, even inadvertently.)
The other case in which I think I've heard improvement is when using very complex multi-driver loudspeakers, especially those that use differing driver technologies for different frequency ranges. Some manufacturers that parallel a bunch of woofers together for the low frequencies can present some pretty annoying loads to an amp (like a <2 ohm load, for example), while the mid-range and tweeter sections present entirely different loads. This is case with my current speakers. When I've directly compared single amping versus biamping in a single blind test I can't tell the difference during the test. What I have noticed is that over longer periods with my system I often detect a greater "sense of ease" with various types of music, but I can't put my finger on it. I have noticed is that with the bi-amp configuration I listen longer without fatigue. Once I noticed the effect, that I could listen longer, I made the decision to stick with bi-amping for these speakers and I've stuck with it for years. That doesn't necessarily mean I recommend bi-amping to everyone, just that I've noticed a situation in which I've felt I'm receiving enough benefit to spend the money for another stereo amp.