Dr. Bob
Your sub is creating a bass suck out mode due to its position in your room and its relationship with the dimensions of your room. This can only be fixed by moving your subwoofer to a desirable location and change its phase in relationship with the room and main speakers. If you can't do that, simply move the woofer to the immediet (within 3 feet) left, right, or rear of your seating area. This will put you in the near sound field of the woofer. Since you cannot determine the location of bass at a frequency below 80 Hz, you will not realize the sub is "near" you. Since you are sitting in the subwoofers near field pattern, the bass frequencies will reach your ears before they are screwed up with reflections from walls and bad room dimensions. You will enjoy reltively clear, flat, and more dynamic bass.
Finally, if you want to know the very best place to put your subwoofer, put it in the middle of your listening room (dead center). Then play a 60 Hz bass tone from a Stereophile test CD. Next walk around the room with a Radio Shack sound decible meter set on C weighted scale, 75 db setting. While the bass frequency warble tone is playing, walk around the room and observe the meter. Where ever you get the loudest (highest) decible reading, that is the best place to place your woofer for maximum decible output. Once you have found that location, check it at 120 Hz, 100 Hz, 80 Hz, 62 Hz 50 Hz 40 Hz 33 Hz 25 Hz and 20 Hz. If the readings remain with + or - 3 db of each other, you have the golden spot to place your woofer. However, if you see a giant suck-out or boost at any of the frequency, retest your area as previously described and find the second loudest spot in your room and try that again as discribed herein.
Good luck with your woofer location hunting project...it will solve your problem.
Best Regards; "Dr. Bob"