I'd simply try the pcm output (with secondary audio off) over hdmi to your avr and see if the avr handles it as multi-ch, if it does you're done.
I looked at your bluray player manual and it appears that it outputs multi-ch pcm in any case, although it could be a bit clearer (page 30/31)....are you required to make a selection for downmix? I'd leave it off to start if possible, or at least the surround encoded mode if you must make a downmix selection. Apparently when this unit decodes Dolby it is limited to 5.1 pcm output, which shouldn't be an issue since that's all you've got.
Good luck!