I have cranked a lot of speakers, and many did pretty good with dynamic range. You might check out speakers with heavy-duty AMT drivers if you want something that can handle loud. One speaker that surprised me was the RBH SV-61r. It had pretty low sensitivity, but that AMT tweeter could handle gobs of power, it got loud and still sounded great. Check out the Hsu HC-1 mk2 in vertical configuration for something with great dynamics as well, also the CCB-8s. The infinity Primus p36x towers are oldies but goodies that could get loud with no problems. I could go on.
The thing about "reference level" listening is is usually refers to a THX specification for loudness, but of course that spec actually means more than just loud, it has an associated distortion level and compression behavior that no one outside of THX (or the manufacturers of THX products) knows. So for anyone who doesn't have access to the specs, the phrase 'reference level' is actually kind of ambiguous, so I use that phrase with some reservations.