The dayton 1200 doesn't roll off that high. If you've measured and you're getting a roll off like that it's likely that 40hz is your room mode and that's making it appear to roll off higher. Even my sub 1000 is flat to 30hz. I had the same problem in a small 12x12 room, two dominate room modes were 40 and 58hz, because of the size I had a 15dB spike centering around 50hz, making everything, including the sub 1500, appear to roll off steeply 45hz. I moved the sub to a larger room that was much longer than it was wide and voila, I get a flat response down to 23hz.
I've never felt like sealed subs were more musical than ported. The only reason they would be is if the ported sub was designed poorly, for example, too high of a port tuning or too small of a cabinet causing one note bass, or too small of a port inducing port wind noise.
A sealed sub may roll off gentler, but keep in mind humans are not very sensitive to bass at lower volumes, unless someone is listening at something like 90dB or above. If a sub rolls off at the 40hz but has 20hz 12dB down, it's likely going to be below the threshold of hearing. The whole fast vs slow sub argument is a waste of time. A well designed sub with a stiff driver will not have resonance issues and long decay times, regardless of whether it's ported or not. Subwoofer are intentionally designed to be slow. A stiff suspension and thin lightweight driver would both increase the -3dB point, and induce ringing and cone breakup at low frequencies, that's why regular speakers have greater distortion at low frequencies, regardless of what their f3 is.
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