For the tv, I'd look at the Samsung HLP6163, a very good third-generation DLP set that is really cheap right now (OneCall has it for $3K delivered). Great picture, great features, I'm thrilled with mine. For the dvd, I'd recommend the Pioneer 578A. Don't let the low price fool you. I've had mine for three months, and I absolutely love it. It plays SACD, DVD-A, and it's only around $100! It will more than tide you over while the format wars are raging.
Hope this helps, JJ.