The sensitivity rating of most speakers is usually averaged for their whole passband from -3db point to -3db point.
The songtowers are 88db sensitive from 42Hz - 20(+)KHz
So in that region 1w would already get you purty loud on average but limit dynamics.
50w would probably have you happy in most rooms.
Beyond that, you're probably going to hit the linear limitations of the 5" drivers. This is where bringing in a subwoofer helps. Those 5" drivers require a lot less excursion at 100hz than they do at 40 hz. The main thing is to not be attempting to reproduce the lowest frequencies with them. this in effect lets you go louders. So if your crossover frequency is 80hz, we have to know if this is a -3db point(Butterworth) or -6db point (Linkwitz-Riley). Normally I don't have a clue but it sounds like you're using a DCX which means you should have a lot more control over this than usual.
The steeper the crossover, the less deep your mains are probably going to be asked to reach, which will give you more linear headroom. This should also help you with some phase issues which can occur in crossing subs to mains although you should still experiment with subwoofer phase to get a seemless blend.
The shallower the crossover, the simpler the circuit. This is pointless with digital finite impulse response filters of course. I don't really see the advantage of digital low order filters to be honest. Only in the analog realm does low order ever "help".
Now I read the other day at another board that when the LFE channel is redirected to the L/R mains, bass dynamics are compressed/limited by most receivers. So if you plan on watching movies you may want to think this over very carefully.
Anyways so we know if we've got a steep crossover we can squeeze more out of the 5" mid range drivers of the Song Tower because they're asked to reproduce less bass which is where their limitations are. Salk states "80 -250 solid state watts" which I read as suggesting essentially "as much power as you feel comfy... you won't use it!". 250w for example might give you a bit more dynamic power but at that point I would be unsurprised if the drivers themself reach THERMAL limits and hit compression. I don't think the song towers are really designed to play LOUD. You'd have to step up to something like a V3 in Salk's lineup for that IMHO. Which btw looks awesome
If I were getting song towers I'd be happy with about 140w into 8 ohm / 220w into 4 ohm type amplifier.