Yes I was mistaken. It turns out that the patch allowed native resolution playback of dvds through the VGA input not upconversion. I have pictures I will try to post later of before and after but I assure you before the patch my dvds looked horrible and now the projector menu has switched from 480i to 720P and the dvds are looking good, I'm not jumping up and down over the new glorious near HD improvement because there wasn't one. Everything just seems clearer and at the right aspect ratio. 2.35:1 doesn't look like I am looking through a slot in a mailbox anymore.
I'm not familiar with scaling at all or how this works, if its something my projector is doing (Mitsubishi HC3, pretty decent especially for only $800 new) or if its not really 720p but at the native resolution that is what my projector thinks it is getting fed. *shrugs*