Alright, maybe I'm missing something, because I'm going to disagree with everyone here.
The Bose Acoustimass 10 system doesn't use a separate subwoofer connection - it only uses the speaker-level connections for the front/center/rear speakers (all of which are routed through the Acoustimass module), and the frequencies are filtered by the Acoustimass module. So, I'd follow the recommendations that are in the Bose owners manual (thanks to Pat for providing the link).
Why the center channel is supposed to be set to small, I don't know. However, I'd do what it recommends, at least to start with.