One other thing to do that's a bit less scientific is, go to the movies and do a rough measure the screen width by pacing it off. Then roughly measure distance from the screen to the seat you find to be the most pleasing to your eyes. Then use your seat distance at home as part of the ratio to figure out what size screen to get in order to give you the same-ish sort of look.
Depending on how tall you are, a person's stride is roughly 2-3.5 ft. For instance, I'm 5'4" and my stride is roughly 2'6".