If it sounds better, and more accurate, then this is great.
However, LFE channel goes up to 120hz, potentially. So, a lot of people do have 80hz xover, but making sure they leave the LFE all the way up at 120hz, if they have that setting (I do).
Like you, I have my mains crossed at 60hz, as I also think it sounds better. Everything else is at least as high as 80hz, including center.
Distance is both physical and electrical. Filters/DSP can make your actual distance farther than your physical distance.
Otherwise, adjust your phase. If relying on ears, get a friend to play with knob while you are seated, listening to bass heavy music. The better setting will sound fuller. Switch places with friend, and compare notes.