The Car Guy and the Electrician are going to offer their $0.02
Led's are nice, but too high priced to be worth it. Or at least wait until a bulb burns out. (I'd wait years for prices to come down) Resist the compulsion for LED's and a Nest thermostat... and skinny jeans.
Oh, the problem with buying first and asking questions later...
Always get the Towing Package.... Especially if you don't tow. Because:
That usually includes a trans cooler, bigger battery and alternator and hitch with fascia cut out; all good stuff.
I was always going to recommend a Honda Ridgeline for you. Very nice for the person needing an occasional truck. The peddles are big to facilitate driving with Crocs.
I always get seat covers. Front seats won't get sun faded. Looks better for resale.
Costco has some nice ones.