Problem solved! Though it's cost a fair chunk of money it was well worth it. I spoke to a couple of almost local dealers and eventually visited one yesterday who advised me to upgrade and replace -
1. Speaker cables
2. cable from CD player to DAC
3. phono connects from DAC to amp
4. phono connects from phono stage to amp
5. power cable from amp
I upgraded all cables to Chord and the dealer fixed connectors to the ends of the speaker cables.
Results - as spectacular as the dealer said they'd be. My Rega turntable has regained its kick, its warmth and its middle registers to stunning effect. I'm also picking up instruments and nuances I've never heard before on playback. It's also very quiet, scratches and pops from the vinyl are hardly intrusive. The slight high end brittleness that I thought was the result of the Audio-Lab amp has evaporated to be replaced by that wonderful warm analogue effect. Bass sounds are appropriately thick and rubbery, drums are authoritative, sounds jump out at me again.
CD/DAC - much much better. I played Kind Of Blue by Miles Davies this morning and again the bass was more audible and natural sounding than I'd previously heard. I followed that with Blue Lines by Massive Attack, and although the difference between the turntable and DAC playback was very obvious listening to this CD, it still sounded spacious and well balanced, vocals were particularly well imaged, the sound-stage was wider and much bigger sounding.
Well done to the dealer who politely ignored my comments about a new DAC, CD player or even amp! After listening carefully to my problem we spent a good couple of hours going through why new cables would solve my problems and discussing options.
I can now retire my NAD amp (I'm sure I'll find a use for it eventually) and enjoy the benefits of the Audio Lab, and the rest of my system.
Okay, the bad news, the upgrade cost a little over six hundred quid, but it was definitely worth it. System is re-born. Thought I'd post this in case anyone has similar problems and has ignored what cables they are using!
Thanks.